Love work is one of the most requested magical workings I receive. Love is a powerful force that can bring people together or tear them apart, I understand why so many people wish to control the tides of love, but the truth is that real and lasting love cannot be controlled. From my experience of working with this incredible force, I can confidently say that it is not up to us when and how we fall in love, that responsibility belongs to a higher being. God knows why our hearts pump harder for one person opposed to another, but the creation of a true and lasting bond is beyond human understanding.
That being said, I still perform love drawing workings for my clients. There are nuances in this vein of work that can lead to a client meeting that special person, I work with those nuances to produce results. There are two main ways love can be worked with from a spiritual/magical perspective. One path of drawing love is what I call “good” and the other path is what I call “bad”. I’ll be using these two terms for clarity, but I want to make it clear that the philosophical understanding of those two polarities become “grey” in this context.
I also want to make it clear that love work is altogether different than reconciliation work which does not operate from a romantic standpoint. The goal of reconciliation is not to reunite two individuals. Reconciliation is exactly as its name suggests, it is intended to reconcile past negative issues that have transpired to create and maintain peace. Make sure to know what you’re asking for before you begin the work. Your emotions can make or break love work and it is detrimental to desire something that no work has been done to attain.
The first type of love working is “good” meaning that it doesn't impede on the free will of another person. This type of working doesn't focus on one specific individual, instead, it sends a prayer out requesting the right person be sent to you. This type of working will find the person who is right for you at this time in your life. It’s important to know what you want in a partner before you make this type of request but it’s a positive working which can result in lasting love and a happy relationship.
The next type of love working is forceful and violent in a spiritual context. What this working required is the complete breaking down of a person’s free will so that it can be overwritten by the worker's instructions. Now, I’m the type of worker who isn't opposed to domination, but this type of love working can and often does have disastrous results. It’s up to each person to decide what path they want to take so if you're going to go down this road, you should be aware of the consequences.
When a person is being manipulated for long periods of time their spirit can feel and knows that something is off. Their conscious mind can't identify where this feeling is coming from or why, but still, they can feel a looming sense of being trapped or controlled. This feeling will often result in the target acting out to assert their independence, this includes cheating, drug use and violence in the relationship. I have had a first-row seat to all of these things happening after forceful love work was done. As the spell begins to wear off these negative actions will increase, and eventually, the target will leave the relationship altogether. These spells tend to last about a year so you can look forward to a year of foggy happiness with a “meat puppet” who is only with you because their free will is being crushed into submission.
I’m sharing this to illustrate the depth of horror forcing someone against their will for prolonged periods of time can have. A fallout is almost certain to occur.
Be very clear about what you're asking for and why. There are so many nuances and loopholes in every vein of magic, but wisdom is the difference between a good worker and a bad one.